Family Relation

On today's blog we are going to talk about fatherhood. Being a father is an important role but as we know in the media, shows, and movies they are portrayed very badly and differently. I have a few things I want to talk to you guys about.  The role of a father is diminishing:    There are so many concerns in the world that the role of the father is fading away and when you think about it there is some truth to this point. As I had mentioned,  fathers or just fatherhood in general is portrayed so badly but not on the media take a second and think about the shows or movies you watch, how are fathers portrayed? Exactly they portrayed as lazy, foolish, irrelevant, immature, and just plain dumb and it is scary to think, fathers are just as a big as mothers what is the role? That leads me to my next point.  What is the role of the father?      Fathers as we know are the head of the house and by that I mean that they are the protectors, providers, role m...

On today’s blog I want to talk about date nights and why they are important to have even after your married. So, why is it important? In a relationship it can be easy to fall in love, but it can also be just as easy to fall out of love but why is that? In a marriage something can get pretty predictable, lives can get busy with work or school, and as sad as it is people get bored and all those things cause people to drift away and part and that romantic spark that once was there fades away but what can we do to stop that? Marriage can be so busy especially if you and your spouse are working and in school and rarely get to see each other. Having date nights is one the best ways that can help you and your spouse connect. Making time for date nights can be a big help within a marriage to keep things spicy and interesting even if its once a week or once every two weeks or for those who are busier ones or twice a month. if you are the one planning the date, make sure to put thought and e...

  On today’s blog we are going to get intimate… just kidding but really, I want to talk what the levels of intimacy are and why they are important in a marriage. There are many levels of intimacy whether its emotional, intellectual, sexual, experiential, or spiritual and all these are all important factors when it comes to marriage. Being intimate with your spouse is a great way to strengthen that bond and it keep both you and spouse physically and emotionally healthy. Let’s talk about the different levels of intimacy:          Emotional intimacy: this can occur when both parties feel comfortable with sharing what they feel both good and bad towards one another because it creates a closeness. This is important because it allows you to be more open by really paying attention to what you are feeling and to what your spouse is feeling and not being afraid to open up completely and have that bond and connection.          Intelle...

On today’s blog we going to talk about what marriage is like within the first month and year. We all have expectations or ideas of what marriage would be like because of movies or Tv shows but in all reality, marriage almost always is not what is shown to us in movies or in Tv shows. Marriage within the first month can be a beautiful thing, but it can also be hard thing, because of the things you will have to learn to do within that first month and sometimes It can be a lot not only are you changing your whole routine but your normal will not be the normal you are used to but you will have an all new normal because that routine has added a new person. At times it can be hard because of new changes like changing your name, living with someone new, getting to learn what their individual habits are, what things they prefer and having to share a room with them, and you have to learn how to make decisions together Marriage can sometimes feel like everything is happening all at once ...

Have you ever asked yourself what the difference is between dating and hanging out is? Well in today's blog we are discussing just that, we are going to define both hanging out and dating, we will talk about how each one has changed over time. Let's start with defining dating. So, what is dating? Dating is a stage of romance in which two individuals engage in an activity together and they both have romantic feeling towards one another. Have you ever wondering how dating has changed over the years? back then dating was built on communication, interaction, sense of humor, and meeting someone in a more natural way. Over time dating has changed and it is not exactly what it used to be. In the society today dating relies on technology and social media, if you think about it people look on social media and think they have an idea what dating really is or dating really looks like. People also tend to rely on dating apps such as tender and what not to meet someone instead of meeting so...

  Hello and welcome back to my fabulous blog,               On today’s blog we are going to talk about gender, I know this topic can be a very hard topic to talk about for some of us, but I want to share my thoughts on this topic in a way that everyone reading this will feel comfortable. Have you ever asked yourself why the difference is between a male and female? Why is that important? In the world today we tend to overlook gender some have their own meaning on what gender is and others really don’t care. So, what is the difference? Males and females can be like, but they can also be different in matters of what they do, how they act or behave, and how they communicate. I do not want to come out as if I am stereotyping males and females but the point, I want to get across is that both male and female are similar but different in many ways. Both women and men have different characteristics and different qualit...

 On today's blog I want to talk about culture and what culture means, so what exactly is culture? Culture from what I know can be defined as customs or traditions of people. So, have you ever asked yourself what culture you are creating within your family?  With culture and what I have learned, culture can establish your identity, if culture can establish your identity, what can creating or establishing a family culture do? Okay, but first let us talk about the how, meaning how can we create family culture?  Creating family culture can including many things, in an article I read on Ahaparenting.com gives eight reasons on how to create family culture but I only want to talk about a few. The first way talks about creating an identity for the family or in other words what your family can be known for, The second reason is eating dinner together and talking a to another, the third reason talks about using every excuse to celebrate and party with each other so for example if y...